The truth about hope
August 29th, 2009Last Tuesday, a retired man in South Carolina won a $260 million Powerball Jackpot. If he takes the prize in one lump sum, he would pocket about $88 million. Luck was on this man’s side because his chance of winning was 1 in 195 million. If one drives 15,000 miles a year for 50 years on American roads, one’s odd of dying in a car accident is about 1 in 100. In the U.S., the odd of being struck by lightning is about 1 in 600,000.
For me, I have never caught a fish before in my life. On the other hand, my wife has won the slot machine jackpot twice in Las Vegas. Because she believes that luck is always on her side, she likes to play Megamillions. She argues that the reason why I will never win a lottery is because I never buy the ticket. Therefore, my chance of winning is zero. Although her chance of winning is small, it is still greater than zero. Like all loving husbands, I skillfully avoid the argument–which I know I will lose regardless of what I say–by replying, “I believe I will never win a jackpot because I used all of my luck on you.”
I am not against playing the lottery. If one participates for fun once in awhile, it is alright to spend a few bucks to buy some hope. However, I am interested in pointing out that hope sometimes is a very dangerous concept. To me, hope is like a poison that can kill a man if he indulges himself in it.
In The Shawshank Redemption, one of my favorite movies, Andy Dufresne warns his fellow prisonmate that “hope is a very dangerous thing, my friend.” Wrongfully accused for killing his wife, Andy has always dreamed of freedom. However, he does not just hope for it to come. Instead, he takes matters into his own hands and plans his escape. And, he succeeds.
A few years ago, in the middle of a snow storm, a man and his family were trapped in their minivan because he had taken a wrong turn into the wilderness. After having saved his wife and two kids, the rescuers found his body a few miles away in a creek. There was a big debate about whether it was a good idea or not that he left his family behind in the minivan to seek help. I truly believe in my heart that he did it out of love. He could not sit and hope for the rescuers to come. What if they would never come? He did not want see his children die because of his mistake. He sacrificed himself to give his family some hope. Even at this very moment while I am writing this article, I am feeling a chill running up my spine as I think about his lonely death. I know for sure his last thought was to wish that someone would save his family.
In 2008, President Obama won the election by employing the concept of hope. He knew that poor and middle class Americans were thirsty for change, so he gave them hope. Like hungry fish looking for food in the morning, they all took the bait. They voted for him because they hoped that he would save them. They voted for him because they hoped that he would give them a better life. They put too much hope in a man who did not think twice before he made his promises. In 2009, many are still hoping that one day he will fulfill his promises.
Hope is beautiful, but it becomes dangerous when one only hopes and does not want to take action. Everyone can hope or dream, but only a few can deliver. If one wants to become a millionaire, one must work for it. Personally, I believe that it is easier to make a million dollars by investing than by winning a lottery. And, the fastest way to be poor is to sit and wait for a politician to fulfill his promises. Finally, I am not telling you to stop hoping. However, I hope that you all approach life in a way that you will rarely have to rely on hope.